THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Saturday 31st Jan 2026
Meal Fund
They call it “lunch shaming.” I call it cruelty. For nearly four decades, I stood by and saw it play out in my classroom’s shadow. Then one ordinary Tuesday, I finally broke the rules.
My name is Daniel Whitmore. For 38 years, I’ve been a history teacher. My days were spent inside gray cinder block walls, with shelves of fraying textbooks and the steady drone of the dismissal bell at 2:15 every afternoon. I taught U.S. history—wars, speeches, the Great Depression. I told my students about bread lines, dust bowls, and families that had to scrape together pennies just to put food on the table.
But the hardest lesson wasn’t in any chapter. It happened every day in the cafeteria.
It was a Tuesday when I noticed it with new eyes. One of my quieter sophomores, Jamie, a boy who sat at the back of third period, was in the lunch line. He was a good kid, always sketching little Union soldiers or Civil War cannons in the margins of his notes. That day, when he got to the cashier, she leaned over and said something. His shoulders sagged. She slid a tray toward him—but it wasn’t the hot meal everyone else had. It was the dreaded “alternative meal”: two slices of white bread with a slab of cold cheese, and a carton of milk.
The IOU meal. The shame sandwich.
Jamie walked past his group of friends and sat alone at a corner table. He didn’t touch the food. He just stared down at the table, his face pale. It wasn’t just a sandwich; it was a public announcement that his family was broke.
In that moment, something inside me cracked. I’d been teaching about history for decades, but right there I saw what humiliation looked like—served up between two slices of bread.
The next morning, I walked into the main office before classes began. Clara, the cafeteria manager, was counting receipts. She had worked there almost as long as I had.
“Dan,” she said, barely looking up. “Don’t tell me the copier’s broken again.”
“It’s fine,” I said, sliding a folded fifty across the counter. “This is for the kids. If someone can’t pay, cover it from this. Don’t let them walk away with that cold sandwich.”
She stared at the bill, then at me. Her eyes softened, and with a small nod, she tucked the money into her apron without a word.
That became my routine. Every Friday, I dropped off a bill—fifty if I could, a hundred when there was a little wiggle room in my paycheck. I started calling it the “Hidden Meal Fund.” Clara never mentioned it, but I noticed. Sometimes I’d catch her quietly serving a full tray to a kid I knew was struggling, and across the room, she’d give me a little nod. That nod meant the world. It was our silent pact.
For a year, I did this. No announcements, no pats on the back, just quiet defiance against a cruel system.
Then one afternoon, my brightest student, Emma, lingered after class.
“Mr. Whitmore?” she asked softly, twisting her backpack strap. “This isn’t about the assignment.”
“Go on,” I said.
“I know it’s you. The lunch money thing.”
My stomach dropped. I imagined a meeting with the superintendent, a lecture about school policy, maybe even disciplinary action.
But Emma’s face wasn’t accusing. It was glowing. “My mom works in the office. She saw the entries in Clara’s reports. The donations. She figured out who it was. And, well… we want to help.”
The following Monday, my AP students set up a bake sale in the main hallway. Their sign said: “Bake Sale Against Hunger. No Student Left Behind at Lunch.” By the end of the day, they dropped a shoebox on my desk stuffed with crumpled bills and coins. Four hundred and twelve dollars.
The administration knew. Everyone knew. And still, they turned their heads and let it happen.
Now, I’m preparing for retirement. The “Hidden Meal Fund” is no longer hidden—it’s become The Fund, run completely by students. They organize fundraisers, bake sales, and car washes. They own it now.
For 38 years, I tried to convince kids that history was about battles and bold leaders. But that wasn’t the real lesson. The truth is, history is shaped in quiet corners, in acts of compassion no textbook ever records. Sometimes it’s written in a cafeteria, when a teenager is spared the humiliation of being branded poor over a sandwich.
That’s the history I want to leave behind. Those are the people I still believe in.
~ Unknown (from Jim Gentil's e-newsletter)
So, as those who have been chosen by God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindess, humility, gentleness and patience.
~ Colossians 3:12
Thought for the Week - Jacquie Peal.
29 January 2026
(Another one from John)
There was a terrible fire at a club in Switzerland on New Year's day. PLEASE do not think I am trying to make light of what was a tragedy for so many involved either directly or indirectly: lives destroyed or changed forever, and even now DOZENS still in hospital with severe burns!
There were, though, two interviews on the television the following day that really made me think.
Firstly, an elderly man in an hotel just yards from the tragedy heard a bang and wondered why 'young people' were letting fireworks off so close to his hotel. A few minutes later he heard shouting, which he put down to drunken revellers, then heard police cars - presumably to arrest the young drunken revellers. Only when there were more and more rescue services did he realize a tragedy was unfolding.
Immediately after this interview they spoke to a youngster who had got out of the fire almost uninjured. He spoke of seeing someone whose hands were covered in blood with skin peeled off. He then told of his horror when he realised that this man could not hold a glass or operate his telephone.
I am afraid that, though I prayed for all involved and for these two people in their shock - and, possibly, later, guilt - the juxtaposition of the two interviews sent my thoughts spiralling into the question of how we, as Christians, deal with the different starting point of folk when we speak to them. How do we speak about a loving father to someone who has suffered years of family abuse? How do we use words like "foregiveness" or "hope" to those,whose lives have been destroyed by others? I am sure that the short soundbites I heard were not really representative of the real feelings of these two caught up in a moment of abject horror. It did make me wonder, however, how on earth we can bridge a gap which so often exists in perception, in values, in the very meaning of life between people of different ages, social settings, upbringing and experience.
Pray God that I can at least TRY to respect that others have a right to opinions very different to mine (and only take issue if their views mean, or might mean, physical or psychological harm to others!!!)
With love ,
John
PS - on the line of a gap in starting points, our church in Portsmouth was a popular gathering point, not always for the right reasons. On one occasion, Jacquie, on entering, remonstrated with a youngster for their behaviour, ending with the suggestion that 'this is God's house'. She, however, was floored by the response :- 'Is God your 'usband, miss ?'
Charles Hadley.It could be a proverb, a Bible text, an anecdote, a snippet of good news…Max length 75 words.


